Sexual Counselling for Couples
For couples who wish to embody their pleasure awareness, giving and receiving wholeheartedly.
For couples who wish to embody their pleasure awareness, giving and receiving wholeheartedly.
In Sexual Counselling for Couples, the focus is on truly perceiving your own body and that of your partner, unfolding shared pleasure, and gently releasing intimate blockages. Our counselling is a journey that is rooted in the Tantric affirmation of all that is, rather than rejecting it, accompanied by somatic tools to embody the learned.
This work is wonderful for couples who seek to explore sensuality and deepen their connection, even in moments of discomfort. Learn how to communicate desires and set boundaries with love and respect, while giving and receiving affection free from shame. Through mindful exploration, Tantric breathing and bonding practices, we strengthen your connection, enhance intimacy and normalise expressing boundaries, desires and worship.
I offer a variety of grounding, heart-opening meditations, breathing exercises, and somatic practices that will help you find support and safety in your body and regulate your nervous system. There will also be pleasure-enhancing sex-ercises, all within a safe space, with consent.
Nick Perry
The interconnected topics we explore include:
Presence & Connection
Differences & Authenticity
Closeness & Autonomy
Mindful Touch
Power Dynamics & Conflict
Appreciative Communication
Taboos & Shadows
Relationship Dynamics
Forgiveness & Surrender
Future & Vision
Eroticism & Libido
Spiritual Sexuality
Tantric Massage
Ester Perel
We’ll work with tantric exercises, focusing on either sensitively witnessing each other, deepening your connection, or exploring your own physical and emotional experience. The intention is to give space to sensations and desires, to acknowledge them, learn to communicate them, and offer/receive touch lovingly. I will gently guide you through these processes, ensuring that you hold only what feels right for you, and we will continuously check in to make sure you feel comfortable.
There will be no nudity or forced touch – you decide what you want to explore. Everything is an invitation.
We work with mindfulness, elements from Tao-Tantra, conscious touch, and the discovery of new sensory experiences to help you come closer to each other and yourselves, both physically, emotionally and spiritually.
“We would like to express our deep gratitude for the transformative coaching sessions with Charly. Her warm, compassionate presence and dedication created a trusting, safe space for deep healing. Charly's wisdom, empathy and ability to guide me and my partner through various healing processes for our desire to have children allowed us to confront and release held back pain. We are happy to report that it worked out: With our son, we are a happy family now.”