The Obsidian Yoni Egg
Your Guide for Yoni Healing & Conscious Pleasure
Your Guide for Yoni Healing & Conscious Pleasure
The use of black Obsidian is an ancient medicinal tradition from Latin America and China. Despite its recognised healing qualities, we shouldn’t assume that inserting Obsidian in our yoni will automatically heal all our suffering. Yet, deep work through psychosomatic exploration through Pelvic Activation, Chakra Energetics, Family Constellations, Orgasmic Meditation & Conscious Self-Pleasure can provide us gateways to true sexual and spiritual health. For a gentle start of this journey, I created a free Heart-Yoni Meditation for you. A soft, guided audio for you to reconnect, feel, and release. To dive deeper and commit to your transformation, see my 1:1 sessions.
Black matter: Obsidian is a Volcanic Glass formed by the rapid cooling of Lava Flows. In Pre-Hispanic times, Obsidian was worshipped as the ‘Obsidian Butterfly Goddess’ who stands for protection and the shadow. As explosive as its formation during an Eruption, Obsidian is believed to bring our hidden parts to light, helping us release pain, blockages, illness and sexual trauma. A sacred confrontation that invites us to move through the dark - to transcend into the light.
Clarify Your Purpose before the Obsidian Treatment
Obsidian is a psychic tool that works with a woman’s unconscious. That’s why it is necessary to mentally focus on the work we wish to undertake. In any case, before beginning the treatment—and in alignment with the principles of obsidian healing— we need to understand why we are doing this process, or better said: What for?
Is it for healing a physical organ?
To release an issue connected to conflicts with your partner?
To work with a specific inner archetype?
To release emotions that feel so confused you don’t even know who the conflict is with?
To clarify your mental realm, your thoughts?
To engage in a process of self-discovery around your sexuality?
To begin a spiritual path?
To go deeper into a spiritual path you have already started?
In Aztec Cosmology, Itzpapalotl represents the embodiment of both beauty and terror, often depicted with butterfly wings tipped with obsidian blades. A symbol of duality, sharpness, and transcendence, her presence reflects the cycle of life, death and rebirth, as well as the hidden strength within our Divine Feminine Energy, our womb space, our yoni and our orgasmic creativity.
How to start a Conscious Transformation Practice with Your Yoni Egg
Hold your yoni egg between your hands like praying, close your eyes and acknowledge the magnitude of the choice you‘ve made to practice loving yourself. While it warms to your touch thank your stone for being with you on this journey. Rinse your crystal with warm water –no soap– and visualize all energetic impurities being washed away. Caution as it will be slippery when wet.
Charge your egg with an intention for working together. It is always a co-creation! I am a big lover of rituals – in the best case, out in nature. Use the elements: Water (river, lake, sea), Soil, Incense, Sun & Moon Bathing. Light a fire or candle, sing, meditate, set an intention and write it down: What is it you want to release, heal, invite into your life? Be honest with yourself. This will be the guiding force on your journey with your yoni egg. Burn your intentions to release old attachments. Enjoy this ritual, allow yourself to connect with your higher self. Place your egg under the full moon to recharge it and under the new moon to plant new seeds of healing. Each time your intention for working together changes, renew your ritual.
Breathe deep into your yoni as you prepare to welcome your yoni egg inside of you. Ask your body for permission before inserting it, practice your "‘Yes” and “No”, your intuition. You can squat, stand or lay down. The thick end of the egg goes in first. Once you’re ready, relax, take 3 deep breaths and insert 3-4cm into your vaginal channel. Once inside, exhale and thank your egg for helping you manifest your deepest wishes. You can either use your egg during the night or in the day. On day 1 start with 2 hours, day 2 four hours, and from there find your own rhythm. There’s no correct amount of time, but be sure to give your yoni times of rest. Know, that it can‘t get lost inside you. Relaxing and softening your muscels it will slowly come down by itself.
Ask permission again before releasing your egg. You can either stand or squat. Gently push it out. You can also do it with one hand under your yoni on the toilet, so you don’t release your egg unintentionally. Cleanse it and place it in a space that’s meaningful to you. Obsidian is the stone of dreams too. Taking it to bed can bring powerful messages from our subconscious, of our inner archetypes, and what parts of ourselves we need to look at in order to heal. For that you can leave your egg in or just hold it in your hands.
Feel your crystal inside of you. Breathe in deeply contracting your kegel muscels activating your pelvic floor- and breathe out with a sigh, releasing your muscles, while sending love from your yoni into your heart and back from your heart into your yoni. Feel the vital flow of energy and love between your sex center and your heart center revitalize you. Fill yourself up with Divine Feminine Energy, while you remember your intention with “'I”-affirmations. I am beautiful, I have the right to enjoy my pleasure, I am abundant, I am healthy, I am free.” Do this for 7 minutes.
Yoni Egg Therapy after Mexican psychotherapist and Obsidian specialist Ana Silvia Serrano
Ana Silvia Serrano, a Mexican Psychotherapist and Spiritual Medium has researched the healing power of Obsidian for women’s sexuality for over 30 years- managing to make Obsidian a legally approved medicine by the Mexican Ministry of Health. She recommends a special treatment:
Use your Obsidian Yoni Egg for 6 days (if you have your menstruation or an inflammation, don’t use your egg), and pause on the 7th day. Do this treatment for three weeks and pause the 4th week, in order not to overuse the energy centers of the body (Chakras). Continue this treatment (3 weeks yes, 4th week no) during three months. This way, a full treatment cycle is completed. After that, make a break for a full month. You can repeat this treatment the times you want, whether there’s an illness to cure or not. Write the changes in your body, emotions and spiritual revelations that occur from week to week.
It helps enhance self control and consciously navigating excessive emotions and passions
It supports overcoming past relationship trauma and releasing emotional codependence
It promotes clarity when making difficult decisions and putting healthy boundaries
It absorbs negative energies and attachments through ultra-violet frequencies
It helps release sexual shame and related traumas of self-censorship and mistrust
Alexandra Sunshine Rose